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I found one article I really like today, How To Build Friendships With Good Listening Skills. I wonder how many of us really listen to our friend, spouse, family and most importantly your loved ones whenever they come to you with their story.
Sometimes in the attempt to listen, we just can’t wait for the person to stop talking and start rambling about ourselves. That’s not what a good listener will do.
In the end you just hear all the rants and babble, worse still in your crazy struggle to talk back you miss all the important points that the other person is hurling out.
Next time when she comes to you with her hurt story of the day, stop your traffic thoughts and listen, let the vehicle of her emotion at the other side of the light pass by.
She doesn’t need your advice or action plan, she just need you to listen.
